Originally Posted by Helo
Wow, you've got some stones jumping into this right off the bat. Mad respect.
Yup! But as TN said everybody's different and I've heard of stranger thins. By all means go as fast as you feel comfortable and tell them your feelings about being afraid of wanting them too much too soon. Nothing's hurt by getting to know them as friends for a while, and if you talk it over with them and they are okay with you saying 'stop' at any time you feel uncomfortable I see nothing wrong with letting things develop. Remind them that you're just getting your first experience with a relationship and you might feel overwhelmed with a double dose. Yes, you have a lot of courage and that's to your credit. I hope things go well for you with this.