Originally Posted by learninginTN
Well, everyone has a limit with what they're comfortable with, so yes, I would do that if she insisted on something I'm not comfortable with, like >24 hour stays, or spending more time with him than with me. Keep in mind polyamory is only polyamory if both spouses agree to it. Otherwise, it's just adultery.
I agree. My question, though, was: will SHE stop polyamory if you put your foot down?