Well, we managed to come to an understanding this weekend, shifted some things around so she's only with him for about 24 hours. So crisis averted.
W and her guy have started looking for a third person (presumably a woman) by signing up on the same site we used to use when we were swinging. I have mixed feelings about this. On the one hand, why should I really care what they do on their time? They're not with me, right. But part of me is really bugged by this. I mean, W and I are not even having sex, and she's moved on to wanting threesomes with her guy. And I miss having threesomes, too. I'm wondering if it will make it even more difficult to re-establish our intimacy if she's doing threesomes without me.