Thread: Poly or not?
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Old 06-11-2009, 04:52 PM
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Redpepper is extremely busy so I sometimes pass her thoughts along. Here are her thoughts on the situation with respect to your wife's relationship with this man without his wife knowing.

"For me their love is a fallasy. Any love based on deception is not love (its wishing) and not poly. I'm a bit anxious and desperate now to let that couple know they are harming each other. How could they be so na´ve!? So distressing... All I can think of is the overwhelming sense of loss, deception, abandonment that wife is going to feel. More negativity put out into the world. More damage done."
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