You might want to read the last few pages of NYCindie's blog. Her (boy)friend got another (girl)friend who did have cancer. Cindie struggled with a bit of possessiveness and guilt when he would go off to caretake this other woman on a regular basis, breaking dates with Cindie to do so... Not an easy situation.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
Mags (poly, F, 60) loving miss pixi (poly, F, 39) since January 2009, living together since 2013
also loving Punk (monogamish, former swinger, 42, M) since Oct 2015
"Master," (mono, 34), miss pixi's Dom for 2 years
Last edited by nycindie; 05-05-2014 at 02:54 AM.