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Old 02-18-2013, 05:24 AM
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Originally Posted by vmsmith View Post
I'd like to...but its very hard....
Doesn't this sum up much of life? Doing the right thing often is hard.

she did attempt to renegotiate the communication agreement, but failed.
Meaning...? She failed to get her husband to agree to what she wanted? So she just lied to him and did whatever she pleased?

My wife and I had been working on this for years, I can't expect her to make the same progress overnight.
You can always expect someone to be honest. With you. With her husband.

I would prefer to remain a messy and imperfect friend than cause us both to loose a friendship on principle.
This isn't entirely about you or her or your friendship. It's also about her husband and children, all of whom are ultimately going to be hurt by her actions, which you are now a part of.
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