Originally Posted by Magdlyn
Well, it's a board for perverts. I do not find it scary at all. Quite friendly and fun.
The OP does not seem vanilla so I do not get your point.
Relating my own experience with FetLife. I'm (relatively) vanilla.
I am as direct as a T-Rex with 'roid rage and about as subtle. It isn't intended to cause upset, I just prefer to talk plain. There are plenty of other people here who do the nice, polite thing much better than I can. I'm what you'd call a "problem dinner guest."