Originally Posted by MonoVCPHG
Obviously the idea that our partners would not have control is largely due to social conditioning and the environment we both grew up in. The important part is not why we have this idea, but that I was able to identify it, realize it was invalid and therefore overcome it!!
You didn't elaborate on how you overcame it? so my question is How did you over come it with just the identifying it? what were some of the steps? or things you did to over come it?