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Old 02-16-2013, 03:09 AM
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I found it necessary for it to be written as well.

My reason isn't the honorable/dishonorable issue.

The issue was that we are ALL ADD. Every single person in our household and honest to goodness-we would walk away from an agreement-completely forgetting things we sincerely agreed to.
That led to some NASTY hurt feelings when actions were taken that were not in alignment with our agreement (including what was or was not considered "using protection" for sex with others).

Since we put it in writing-we are always free to broach the topic of revisiting it and making changes, but it ensures that we all have a copy to reference about our agreements and know what we've agreed to.
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