Originally Posted by jmk
kc would prefer i start with a woman, as he has never had to experience the jealousy of having to share with another man, but i cannot dictate who will interest me, nor should i have to limit myself if we are truly open. i just would like to meet more people than the few that i know that are into poly relationships so that i have a wider base to "choose" from.
I would prefer that my floor never require mopping... doesn't mean I have any reasonable expectation that it's going to happen.
Good for you for standing up for yourself and acknowledging that what's good for the gander is good for the goose. He doesn't get to be on board for an open relationship only so far as it doesn't inconvenience him. He'll just have to feel the jealousy and learn how to cope with it.