I want people to think because of my words, not react negatively because of how I present them. What is it you want nondy?[/QUOTE]
Ultimately, RP, I'd like people (as you have) to acknowledge that this is a political issue of prejudice, not just about one person (me) with a bee in her bonnet. And I think, due to my loss of patience, it came off that way...so that when I attempt to speak up for disabled people, it comes off as someone insulted ME and it's just ME - which is not what I'm shooting for at all.
I'd also (not you RP) but would like the moderators to use some equanimity.