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Old 02-13-2013, 10:05 AM
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Originally Posted by PhilosophicallyLost View Post
Still....something about the "not deserving it" comment strikes me as not the right way to handle the request.
Declare a holmgang and pass out the axes?

Husband doesn't seem very agreeable to the whole poly deal. His comment reads, to me, as "I know this will make you happy but I want to punish him more than I want to make you happy."

Originally Posted by PhilosophicallyLost View Post
"You didn't look out for me when this started, now I have every right in the world to spoil your fun."
Is that a direct Husband quote?

Being hurt is fine but it hardly gives one the right to act like a biznitch towards other people.

I was very careful to make it about the issues he and I as a unit need to work on, and one of them is communication
Really? It sounds pretty clear to me; Husband doesn't want you to be poly and is going to pout about it until something gives.

I'm still for the holmgang idea.
I am as direct as a T-Rex with 'roid rage and about as subtle. It isn't intended to cause upset, I just prefer to talk plain. There are plenty of other people here who do the nice, polite thing much better than I can. I'm what you'd call a "problem dinner guest."

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