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Old 02-12-2013, 07:52 PM
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My response was sincere.

Feelings, like weather, r inconstant. Not reliable for choosing our actions AND not always controllable.

You can't change feelings by ignoring them. Usually time and experience alone will alter feelings.

But-actions are within your control. So control your actions.

Everyone encounters negative feelings.
Being a mature adult means knowing how to act responsibly and positively INSPITE of those feelings.
That does NOT mean denying or ignoring the feeling.
It means behaving appropriately regardless.
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