Originally Posted by nycindie
I would just as him point blank, and tell him your doubts. I wouldn't contact her unless you know her and have been in touch with her before. If not, that would be something I'd think twice about.
"Him and gaz" -- sounds like more than one person. If you are seeing two people, why do you say you are monogamous?
I am sorry but I am not sure there is a word for my relationship, I understand its a vee and we are closed atm but I would say I am mono because I am only seeing them.
thanks for your advice, I am seeing him tonight so will be talking to him then.