I would just as him point blank, and tell him your doubts. I wouldn't contact her unless you know her and have been in touch with her before. If not, that would be something I'd think twice about.
Originally Posted by jones
sorry I can't remember how to update it, I have only been sleeping with him and gaz since October, so we are monogamous. xx
"Him and gaz" -- sounds like more than one person. If you are seeing two people, why do you say you are monogamous?