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Old 02-11-2013, 08:36 AM
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I would just as him point blank, and tell him your doubts. I wouldn't contact her unless you know her and have been in touch with her before. If not, that would be something I'd think twice about.

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sorry I can't remember how to update it, I have only been sleeping with him and gaz since October, so we are monogamous. xx
"Him and gaz" -- sounds like more than one person. If you are seeing two people, why do you say you are monogamous?
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