Originally Posted by SchrodingersCat
I personally don't avoid situations that cause negative feelings just on the grounds that they cause negative feelings. That's a personal choice that I realise some people opt not to make, and that's perfectly fine. But for me, I use negative feelings as an indicator that my attitude needs to change, because usually it's not the situation itself that's the problem, but my perception of it.
Actually I completely agree with this. But most people don't want to make the effort of going through intensive, hard personal growth.