Four years into my relationship with MonoVPHG and we are doing better than ever. This last year has been rough for us and has meant little interest in writing on this forum anymore. We are concentrating on "US" but mostly ourselves as individuals.
If there is something I have learned most in this poly life of mine its that there is no guarantees and no should be no surprises. Every little thing that one thinks is not going to happen can and likely will happen at some point. That might sound rather doom and gloomish, but really, letting go of needing to control what happens and letting go of believing that you are adverse to the tough stuff is the best you can do I think. There can be no surprises if you believe anything is possible. That can be a wonderful thing as much as it can be a painful thing.
Right now its a wonderful thing