You're broken up with this chick and she still keeps your dick in a jar ?
And why do you think of the other girl as a "ho".
I need answers to at least these two questions before i can even attempt to judge you. But i might wait until other people have asked questions before i do that this time. I'm undecided. Don't let that prevent you from responding though. You see, the one who judgeth casteth judgment upon his/herself, or so i heard somewhere.
The situation is hopeless, but not serious.
Reality is too complex to be spread all over the world.