Well, well to not tell a person hey, ur getting to know the same sex, and are getting possible feelings for same sex.. what about that persons feelings? And the after effect of people saying things after its known. That can be very negative also for that person, then I kinda feel like when ur getting to know someone to possibly be with, you should be honest and not mis leading.I can understand both sides on all sides of it, safety,moral and all. Just think I'd feel mis lead and goes hand in hand with getting to know the person.
I was saying he may leave the wife, as u stated first date is a trial ya? So why say oh hey I'm married, when that'll also cause some to get violent towards the guy, right? So why not hide it like ur saying with the transgender scenario. Until the guy goes, ok, I'm going to pursue this.
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Realizing I'm not weird, but just different. After researching poly life, and finding comfort here.