Originally Posted by AnnabelMore
If a woman is born with a hormone problem and deformed genitalia, which she corrects with hormone pills and surgery, should she be expected to explain her medical history on the first date? Is it "not right" if she waits until she knows if she even likes someone to bring up that sensitive piece of her past?
This isn't any different. Women, whether cis or trans, are nothing like commodities you purchase from a shop.
Of course it's different.
Many men would consider a woman from birth to be completely different to a woman who has gotten there from surgery and hormones.