Well, it exploded tonight. Chatty texted me and told me that she was not going to let anyone get into her relationship with Darling. This is after he explictly told her they were not going to be romatically involved. Then she used her daughter as a pawn in all this. She inferred she would hurt/neglect the child if Darling didn't have her come stay the night. And of course he did.
I spent an hour on the phone talking to him about no contact. He pledges that he will do this but I have my doubts. I am so tired of the drama. I just don't know how much more I can take.