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Old 02-08-2013, 02:35 AM
dragonflysky dragonflysky is offline
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BB.....Trust your instincts on this one. I would agree that what is probably being displayed now is the "good girl" side of BPD. That's the nature of the condition. Full on adorable, cuddly, loveable, delightful "two year old" and raging, attacking, accusing, demanding "two year old". I'm not trying to insult an adult. But, this is one of the key symptoms of BPD. It's called "splitting". The "all good/all bad" way they view others and themselves. If she really has made changes....she'll respect and honor your boundaries and desire not to have contact with her. If she pushes it...it's probably a good sign she hasn't made sufficient changes...if any.
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