Thanks for posting.
It's nice to know that others know what I'm talking about!
My hubby-primary is now going through bouts of jealousy, but he's doing okay. I'm going VERY slow. My BF is also sensitive to my husband's needs right now. It was a rough couple of days, but he seems to understand that jealousy is based in insecurity. It doesn't make it all that much easier for him, but he's also seeing a counselor next week for some help with this.
I can't help wishing I wasn't able to love anyone but my husband, as it was for 17 years of happy marriage. I'm not sure what happened, but for those who are spiritually aware, you should get a kick out of the fact that all this happened on December 21, 2012.