I'm sorry but I didn't care for the article much... Came off sounding very judgy and better than and all sorts of get in line and do this the right way... No thank you
And mono can be just as good for those who want that...
I would never want anyone I love to feel 2nd or use that term... But my primary doesn't mean better means he is the constant in my life, my rock and my Dom.
Some loves come into our lives for a life time and others for a season... Doesn't make either less meaningful for our lives or that we don't learn from all.
Keep the judginess and let me live life with what works for me and mine... I don't expect others to do it my way nor will I buy in to having to do it their way.