Originally Posted by nycindie
In what rule book is it stated that only those who do not experience jealousy or insecurity are "truly poly?"
The definition doesn't matter...I don't see the value in debating it.
If you're living a lifestyle that causes you constant insecurity and general bad feelings...and it's not just a phase you're working through...then it is not for you.
You can still technically be poly, but why would you want to?