Originally Posted by Tahirabs
If it wasn't for the people you love (the people you have a polyamourse relationship with) would you be poly at all?
Yes. I knew I was polyamorous since before I knew there was a word for it or that other people felt the same way.
My husband and I are not currently involved with anyone out side our relationship, so it's definitely not our relationship that "makes me poly." It's a feature of my identity.