Welcome to our forum.
It sounds like things are pretty exciting for you and your wife right now, even if it was a little "too exciting" for awhile on the way to this point. I'm sure you'll enjoy your time here, there's a lot of good people here. Have a look at our various threads, and don't be shy about posting any thoughts or questions you may have.
I have gone through some heavy duty intellectual/psychological changes over the past 15 years. It's a strange experience looking back and realizing how much more of a "conformist" I was than I ever thought I was. I tried too hard to fit in, and it caused myself and others a lot of grief. I am glad to be where I am now. "Immoral" and "unacceptable" can be fun!
It's great to have you aboard; I hope you find all that you seek in the poly world.