Originally Posted by Anneintherain
Of course you can change your mind.
Did she finish paying the money back she put on your credit card? If not, that's certainly an extra strong reason to not co-anything with her until she's proved she is responsible. I'd sure be looking long term at any possible negatives it could end up having for you and Airyn and Wolf (like if there are college loans in the future and your credit has been affected by something she did or didn't do), and you were very right about it being a potential problem when it comes to buying a house.
Thanks for that Anneitherain. You are right I can change my mind. This is a subject I'm still working on. Something to discuss more with Airyn. He and I did talk about it last night, and have started working on a compromise, but I'll save the details till we iron things out.
Married to my high school sweat heart (20 year relationship). Talked about Poly, but put the idea off and had a kid instead. Stumbled into an FFM (Vee) that became an FMF (Vee).
No longer dateing my husbands Girlfriend.
Airyn: My husband (Straight)
Chipmunk: My x-GF, My husbands GF (Straight)
Wolf: my Daughter with Airyn
Boots: Social/Friend dating (Bi) Married
History: Social/Friend dating (Bi) Married