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Old 02-06-2013, 03:53 AM
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Oh Carma, it's good to hear from you, but I'm sorry some things are still icky. At least your divorce will mean freedom from a toxic relationship. Take things slowly with Butch, you've had a lot to deal with. And don't be afraid to be very cautious and particular about how often Sundance's gf gets to be around your kids. You have every right to limit that. Hang in there!
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