Well I agree that going on a poly website is probably not helpful considering my point of view. I came on here because my wife posted here originally, which should have clued me in to where her head is. A lot of what people posted has been fairly interesting and thought provoking so I appreciate the opinions.
As far as the last response, you are taking my comment to the extreme. Which does not apply to me. My wife can be friends with whoever she likes including men. I just don't want an emotional connection with a sexual partner other than me. That is something completely different than friendships. In our relationship that is overstepping a line.