[QUOTE=NovemberRain;182543]I'm wondering if you perceive a difference in things one might not want to hear, and things one needs to hear even while not wanting to.
Yes, I believe I can grasp the difference.
1. "There was a huge-ass gross spider on your chair an hour ago, and it probably left spidercooties right where your hand is."
2. "There is a huge-ass gross spider on the back of your chair, RIGHT NOW, get up, run! Run!!