Originally Posted by StudentofLife
I've lost count of how many posts I've read here about how someone is sturggling because their partner told them a truth about the relationship that they didn't want to hear.
I'm wondering if you perceive a difference in things one might not want to hear, and things one needs to hear even while not wanting to.
I don't want to hear that my paycheck is being reduced, but I need to know so that I don't go buy a car before that happens. It would cause me a great deal of stress to have my paycheck reduced; it would cause MORE stress to hear it later, rather than sooner.