I know I shouldn't waste any energy feeling angry that someone would send me this message:
I am writing because I feel simultaneously interested in and in disagreement with what you are saying. I know you wanna b free, but Im telling you right now, If you want the good sex with a good friend, then you gotta go out on a limb and save yourself for that one individual. The trapped feeling is a low down dirty lie. Polyamory can only make people doubt themselves. Its like eating food with no nutritional value repeatedly. The grass isnt greener, its astroturf. I think you would be amazed at what could happen if you pick one good dude and build a trust. A man treated well could have baboon strength for you. I feel it is something to cherish, not sabotage the possibility of it ever happening with talk of detachment.
But, it makes me angry.
Single, straight, female, solo, non-monogamous.