I am so sorry, Phy. It is a sad thing. Take comfort in each other, in what you have together right now... I know you all three share deep love for each other and that is very special and beautiful . Don't know what else to say.
The world opens up... when you do.
Oh, oh, can't you see? Love is the drug for me. ~Bryan Ferry
"Love is that condition in which another person's happiness is essential to your own." ~Robert Heinlein