Originally Posted by Phy
Thanks for your support, there isn't much we can do besides trying to cope at the moment.
Oh, Phy, I'm so sad for you three and this turn of events.
I have been through something somewhat similar (which I have talked about here before) and "trying to cope at the moment" is a good description as you try to wrap your head(s) around the loss of the dream and plan that you had - this is a time of mourning. The added concern of Lin's physical health ... how stressed you must be.
I wish I could offer words of advice that would magically help you feel better...but I can't*. Tend to each other, take care of each other, love each other...
*PS. During the times after my losses I found myself reacting strongly (negatively) to things that people would say in trying to "help". If you need to vent or commiserate feel free to PM me.