Thank you for taking the time to respond!!
lol yea that about sums it up. I guess I have never experienced this. Being into someone with my mind and being so compatible. We think SO much a like that sexual tension is easy to play with and escalate. It's fun as anything but from the physical standpoint not so much.
I guess if there was a lineup of 10 women I would think she is pretty for sure but wouldn't single her out as a "I'd love to hit that" type of girl (guy line).
I've been told I am shallow because of this but it's how I feel. I do feel like once in a while the physical part would be cool. Actually now that much time has passed I wonder to myself how I would feel today. Wonder if I overcame all of my hold ups and would actually enjoy it.