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Old 01-03-2010, 06:51 PM
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Originally Posted by Tahirabs View Post
If it wasn't for the people you love (the people you have a polyamourse relationship with) would you be poly at all?
I was when I started looking, and I still am even though I'm only with the one wonderful man at present, so... yes, I'd say I would be.

Like CielDuMatin, though, I've come to it fairly young -- was already having issues "picking" at the age of seventeen ("Wait, I can't have a boyfriend and two girlfriends? Aw, nuts!") -- and that mindset has been more or less a part of me since then, whether consciously or subconsciously.

I always felt owned and possessed against my will in exclusive relationships. With CDM, that's just not there.
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