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Old 01-03-2010, 06:26 PM
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Originally Posted by Tahirabs View Post
If it wasn't for the people you love (the people you have a polyamourse relationship with) would you be poly at all?
So if I understand your question, it's if I wasn't involved with the current people, would I be prepared to be monogamous with anyone?

If that is the question, then my answer would be "no". While I didn't have a term for it, I knew that monogamy wasn't a "comfortable" relationship model for me since I was a teen and well before either of my current relationships started.
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