It sounds like y'all need to take some time and do some trust building. Don't be in a hurry to plan any particular future. Bonds formed during emotional crisis can feel so intense, and that sense of urgency that comes with them can catapult us into all sorts of other dramas.
I'd say, let this unfold, but let it unfold slowly. Take care of your own heart. Practice good listening and keep checking in with your own feelings and desires. Don't hope for too much yet. And know when it's time to stop waiting, if it comes to that.
Best of luck!