All this makes me think of question I once asked before but never got any real responces from.
If it wasn't for the people you love (the people you have a polyamourse relationship with) would you be poly at all?
I know I wouldn't and that is why I am writing this. If I never met my girlfriend I wouldn't be going out looking for other people. I wouldn't be in love with any one else other than my husband if it wasn't for her. It is her that makes my husband and my relationship poly. (which he loves by the way
Does anyone else feel this way?