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Old 01-31-2013, 06:52 PM
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thank you thatgirlingray, i appreciate your perspective.

i basically just told her that - if we aren't in an exclusive relationship then.... we aren't in an exclusive relationship. but i did it lacking in gentleness, it was an angry conversation both ways, but at least it was direct (on my part at least) in ways that i normally find trouble being out of fear of rocking the boat. she views my wanting to emotionally internalize what that means to not be exclusive, and to explore physically what that means, as evidence that i don't love her, that i am just like every other guy, and all my talk of loyalty and commitment was fraudulent (it wasn't).
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