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Old 01-31-2013, 06:00 PM
opalescent opalescent is offline
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Your best friend is not healthy enough to be in any relationship - mono or poly - right now. She was in an abusive relationship and that takes time to recover from. Dan Savage has often talked about working towards 'being in good working order' before dating or being in a relationship. Steer her to therapy, encourage her to take advantage of it, and be her friend, not her lover right now.
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