Thank for being interested!
I told him how I felt and how my husband was accepting, but he decided that he'd like to keep things casual. He feels that he'd like to get to know me and my husband more. We did only meet 2 months ago and haven't had many opportunities to be in person.
I feel this is totally okay and I'm happy with the outcome so far. Time will tell if this will grow to something more and I'm willing to wait.
B: (me) female, poly, straight
M: (my husband - married 5, together 13) male, heteroflexible
A: (our, myself and M's 2 year old daughter)
C: (my LD boyfriend) male, mono, straight