And just now I called her up to ask her to have lunch with me, and she's in guy's town having "lunch" with him. This is about 9 hours after she left him at around 3:00 this morning. She apologized profusely. Never said anything to me about these plans.
So now, after promising me she was only going to spend two nights with him this week after last week's "every other night sleepover" with him and their weekend 24-hour jaunt, she has seen him every day this week so far.
Something has to change soon, and I expect tonight we're going to have a heart-to-heart about this NRE fog she's in. I know it's unavoidable, but she can change her behavior if she wants to. She's going to have to step up VERY soon and honor her promise to me to work on us and redirect some of that energy back to me or I'm going to hit the brakes on polyamory.
Last edited by learninginTN; 01-30-2013 at 07:05 PM.