I think you need to pull back emotionally and not invest in this one. Keep looking. He's not right for you. There will be others, it just doesn't make sense to continue and keep your hopes up. Move on.
The world opens up... when you do.
Oh, oh, can't you see? Love is the drug for me. ~Bryan Ferry
"Love is that condition in which another person's happiness is essential to your own." ~Robert Heinlein