Welcome to our forum.
Sounds like you guys are new to polyamory; have you heard much about it or read much about it before? If not, you've chanced upon a great site for learning about it. I'm sure you'll make new friends here too.
Have a look around and see what threads interest you, and post any thoughts or questions that come to your mind. It is good to have you aboard, and I wish you the best on your upcoming move to Chicago.
Love means never having to say, "Put down that meat cleaver!"