Originally Posted by Marcus
If this obsession is really so strong as to torpedo relationships then what is the harm in his talking to your boyfriend about it? Maybe a civil conversation where boyfriend gets to explain "I'm flattered that you're in to me, but I am not at all interested. Sorry man, you've got to let that go" to your husband would be helpful.
Thanks for the link and the advice. They have since talked about it, and it went very well, actually. Michael told Danny his boundaries, and Danny is dealing with it. For now, things seem a bit more stable. I hope it lasts.