Thanks for the encouragement and the words of wisdom. I am grateful.
Our first counselling session is Tuesday night, and because it's a 30-minute Skype session I want to be well prepared so as to get as much out of it as I can. I figure I'll cover our history leading up to the decision to open our marriage, such as our early swapping, W's affair, our brief foray into formal swinging, then our decision to open. And then I'll get into W's refusal to be intimate with me, and maybe talk about some practical ways to deal with the scheduling, expectations, etc.
Or do you guys think there are some different things we should cover during this first session?