Originally Posted by LovingRadiance
When in fact, we both have free access to each others phones, email accounts etc. We rarely USE that access-but we don't keep secrets.
So when she started talking shit about me-I was WELL AWARE.
She felt that since she was talking shit TO HIM-then it wasn't "fair" that I knew.
LR, if I can ask, how did she become aware that you knew about her trash talking texts? Did he just mention it to her in passing at some point or did it "come up"?
No doubt letting new folks know that arrangement right out of the gate. That is a rather stark characteristic of a relationship and would hopefully cause a good conversation.
Me: male, 43, straight, non-hierarchical, independent