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Old 01-26-2013, 07:06 PM
GalaGirl GalaGirl is offline
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I meant if my words will cause anxiety for the person listening to me. My baggage is all about not upsetting someone else by telling them things they don't want to hear. I was raised to stuff my own feelings/needs as far down as necessary in order to not upset anyone else around me.
If that is reframed as
I worry my words will cause anxiety for the person listening to me because _____?
What would you put there in the blank?

Galagirl
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